You may wonder what a guide to ear cuffs does and what it is... Bear with me. I'll explain you everything.
Most days I run into someone wearing ear cuffs. It's usually very inspiring, as it reminds me of how much people like them and it makes me feel like designing more. However, I will occasionally meet someone who seems to have given up on her ear cuffs. Those ear cuffs are no longer in their right position and they are pointing to the ground. I get that. There's only a certain number of times anyone can reposition their ear cuffs without eventually running out of steam.
The problem has nothing to do with the person. It has to do with the ear cuffs, mass produced little things that came out of a mold and don't have enough elasticity to do their job, This is why I decided to write this blog post. This is really a short and dirty guide on how to avoid ear cuffs that are going to let you down. Some ear cuffs are just not going to work, not on you nor on anyone else, and all you need to do to recognize and avoid them is in the next few points.
Not all ear cuffs are for everyone.
Just as it wouldn't make sense for a petite woman to wear XXL clothes, it doesn't make sense to wear ear cuffs that are the wrong size for your ear lobes. If your ear lobes are very small, there's a good chance they are also very thin and most ear cuffs will slip off of them. Avoid mass produced ear cuffs and choose to buy from someone who will tailor your jewelry until it is perfect for you. Custom orders are a good idea when it comes to ear cuffs.
Ear cuffs that are inflexible.
Once you hold an ear cuff between thumb and index finger, you should be able to make it change shape. If an ear cuff is so hard that it doesn't change shape, or if it does change shape under pressure, but springs back to its original shape when you release it, it will only adhere to ear lobes that are thicker than the space between its front and back elements. If you have smaller ear lobes these ear cuffs are never going to work for you.
Ear cuffs that are so long both on the front and on the back that they reach your cartilage.
All I can say about this is that what starts as a mild discomfort turns into a dull pain in the space of one or two hours. Something will be very wrong with the world even though in the beginning you won't be able to tell what it is, until the moment when you reach for your ear lobe and all of a sudden you realize that your ears are hurting. A lot. Taking off the offending ear cuff is the only thing you can do to avoid being in pain.
Avoid this scenario by buying from someone who will modify your ear cuffs to make sure they steer clear of your cartilage. You'll be grateful you did.
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